Chapter 33 quarrel

Listening to Gao Xiulian’s scolding, Lin Wei’s face darkened slightly: “You said that the eighth sister ran away from marriage if she didn’t want to get married before getting married, then let me ask you, do you know what marriage is?”

Gao Xiulian rolled her eyes and said, “Why don’t I understand marriage? After the banquet and the license, the two get together to live together, isn’t it marriage?”

Lin Wei ignored her glaring eyes and continued to ask: “Then do you know that the marriage certificate contains the words voluntary marriage? Do you also know that the issuance of a marriage certificate must comply with the relevant provisions of the Marriage Law on marriage? Finally, do you know the marriage law? Are there any rules regarding marriage?”

How could Gao Xiulian know this? She has been married for nearly ten years, and she has seen the marriage certificate twice. Once when I got the certificate, I locked it in the drawer when I took it home, and the other was when I joined the army two years ago, and I put it away after I used it, and I didn’t read it carefully.

She still had some impressions of the word “voluntary marriage”, but she really didn’t know what the marriage law and the relevant regulations on marriage were.

Because she didn’t know, she felt that Lin Wei was mocking her for her lack of culture, and she said with a smile, “Don’t talk to me about this, I don’t know what the rules are, but I know that you need to keep your word, and she always talks to others. It’s not right to regret it after getting engaged!”

“You don’t know, then I’ll tell you!”

“First of all, Article 1 of the “Marriage Law” declares the abolition of the feudal marriage system that is forced, superior to women, and disregarding the interests of children. It implements the new democracy of freedom of marriage between men and women, monogamy, equal rights between men and women, and protection of the legitimate interests of women and children. marriage system.”

“Secondly, the “Marriage Law” stipulates that men can only get married when they are 20 years old and women are 18 years old.”

“The marriage that Chen Bamei’s parents set for her was set by her parents, which ignored the interests of her children, and she did not voluntarily. Moreover, Chen Bamei just turned seventeen, if she married according to the set time, then she would definitely get married when she entered the marriage. Less than eighteen!”

“It can be seen that this marriage, which violates both Chen Bamei’s personal wishes and the relevant provisions of the “Marriage Law” on marriage, is neither reasonable nor legal!”

“Since this is wrong, why did the eighth sister continue this marriage?”

In this matter, Chen Bamei was the victim of the pure old shígG Du Jiacui, and her parents, and the so-called target family, knew that the other party had forced their wife to death, and promised to marry their daughter for the bride price, Knowing that there is something wrong with his son, and wanting to find a good girl to fill the fire pit, he doesn’t take Chen Bamei as a human being.

If she wanted to say that Chen Bamei had a good escape from this marriage, she should let them go on a dog-eat-dog!

Although Lin Wei’s voice is not as loud as Gao Xiulian’s, her aura is not inferior at all, mainly because Gao Xiulian doesn’t understand the content of “Marriage Law” she recites, and she doesn’t know how to retort.

Although Gao Xiulian is quite unreasonable, she is still in awe of the law, and she is also afraid that if she speaks bald, she will be buckled by Lin Wei’s hat, and she will not be able to eat and walk around.

It was just so inferior, Gao Xiulian was not reconciled, and she turned her head and said, “Even if she is not willing, her parents are always willing, right? The front foot decides such a marriage for the sake of money, regardless of the daughter’s wishes, and the back foot sends the daughter away. We come to the island to want to repent, isn’t this a joke! In my opinion, their thinking is very problematic.”

Gao Xiulian wanted to start with Chen Bamei’s parents and lead to the misalignment of the upper beam and the lower beam to prove that she was right. It’s best to climb Lin Wei, Deng Xiangyun and the others, and make a den of snakes and rats with others!

As soon as she finished speaking, she heard Lin Wei clapping and applauding: “Comrade Gao, I agree very much, it is very unacceptable that the parents of the eighth sister disregard her daughter’s wishes to marry her! Question! I just think, it’s useless for you to tell us this, you have to tell the person concerned, so that they can correct it after listening to your teaching, right?”

Gao Xiulian was confused by Lin Wei’s words, and reflexively said, “They are not on the island…”

“What does it matter if you’re not on the island? Eight sister’s hometown in Lingnan, the round-trip fare plus room and board, twenty yuan is enough? Otherwise, it will be cheaper to make a phone call. Either way, I will cover the cost. .”

Lin Wei has learned a lot of new vocabulary from the original book. The three words “keyboard man” are very suitable for Gao Xiulian.

Although computers are not popular now, Gao Xiulian’s behavior of catching the victim to talk loudly embodies the essence of these three words vividly.

In addition, keyboard warriors usually bully the soft and fear the hard, and only catch the output point of view that is easy to bully.

The same goes for Gao Xiulian. When I mentioned Chen Bamei earlier, one sentence after another. But when Lin Wei told her the theory that she was going to find Chen Bamei’s parents for money, she didn’t dare to say anything.

Thinking of this, Lin Wei said with a smile: “Not only will I cover the cost, but if you can make Chen Bamei’s parents realize the mistake, I will embroider two red flags for you after the matter is over, and write on the other side, ‘If the road is not peaceful, draw a knife to help, a real warrior is also ‘, while writing ‘Dare to speak, dare to think, dare to think, dare to act, a role model for our generation’, look at Comrade Gao, when are you free, and I will **** you when you leave?”

Although Lin Wei had a smile on her face and said that she wanted to embroider a red flag for Gao Xiulian, but Gao Xiulian was not stupid, how could she not understand the sarcasm in her words, and said stiffly, “Don’t use words to provoke me, after all this It’s all their family affairs, what am I, an outsider, involved in?”

“Comrade Gao, do you still know that you are an outsider? Listening to what you said about the eighth sister earlier, I thought you and that domestic abuser were relatives!”

Lin Wei pretended to be surprised, and said “tsk” heavily.

…

Although Lin Wei and Gao Xiulian quarreled during work, there were several military wives in the Zhao family’s yard at that time, so this matter spread quickly, and those who had jobs basically heard about it as soon as they came back.

Zong Shao is like this. As soon as he entered the family area, he was told that Lin Wei and Gao Xiulian had quarreled again.

He was worried in his heart, it could be said that he ran all the way back, and when he saw that Lin Wei was doing well, it didn’t seem like he had a fight before he was relieved, and he was in the mood to ask why there was a quarrel.

Lin Wei said as soon as she heard it, “Don’t mention it.”

Having said that, I still told everything that happened in the afternoon.

As they were talking, Deng Xiangyun and his wife brought Chen Bamei over. They were also told that Lin Wei and Gao Xiulian had quarreled because of Chen Bamei.

Because the person who told them about it knew it only after hearing it, so when they said it, they were vague and confused. When I went home and asked Chen Bamei, I realized what happened.

So without waiting for dinner, they brought Chen Bamei over to thank them.

After thanking Lin Wei, Zhou Jianhai didn’t go back directly, but swerved to the next door Zhao’s house.

As the saying goes, don’t look at the monk’s face and look at the Buddha’s face. Gao Xiulian knew that Chen Bamei was his cousin, and even scolded those excessive words. If he didn’t say anything, it would be too useless.

The atmosphere of the Zhao family is not very good.

Zhao Feng also heard about the afternoon’s incident as soon as he came back. Knowing that his daughter-in-law had offended not only Lin Wei, but also a cousin Zhou Jianhai, he immediately became stunned.

Pian Gao Xiulian didn’t feel that she was wrong, and said there: “This Lin Wei knows how to pull the flag, doesn’t she just read a few more years? What’s so great? And that Chen Bamei, looking honest, In fact, it is very treacherous, and the words are so pitiful, and the truth is not necessarily true…”

The more Zhao Feng listened, the more annoyed his heart became. He raised his voice and shouted, “Enough!”

Gao Xiulian was startled, and her voice stopped abruptly.

But she quickly reacted and shouted back with a louder voice: “What are you yelling at me for? Did I say something wrong? I’ve grown up so much, and I’ve never seen a woman run away from marriage. Why don’t we let outsiders tell us about the inspection?”

It was only after Gao Xiulian realized that she was completely surrounded by Lin Wei in the afternoon.

When talking about marriage these days, who doesn’t listen to their parents’ arrangements? According to Lin Wei’s words, isn’t all of them arranged marriages and can’t be counted? Besides, if Chen Bamei didn’t want to, why didn’t she run away before getting married?

As for the fact that Chen Bamei is not yet 18, it is not a problem in Gao Xiulian’s view. Do the wine first, and then get the certificate when she is old? This is the case in many rural areas these days.

After selectively forgetting that the so-called object of Chen Bamei’s wife was forced to death by domestic violence, and that even if she had a drink first and then obtained the certificate, when the de facto marriage was established, Chen Bamei was not an adult. The more she thought about it, the more she felt that she was right.

Looking at Gao Xiulian’s appearance, Zhao Feng was so angry that his brain hurt. He was about to speak to her when he saw Zhou Jianhai entering the yard, so he got up and said, “I’ll tell you later” and went out. .

Because he knew what happened in the afternoon and saw Zhou Jianhai at first glance, Zhao Feng guessed that he was a bad person.

Sure enough, Zhou Jianhai asked him when he saw him: “I came here to ask, Deputy Head Zhao, do you have any opinion on me?”

Zhao Feng was stunned for a moment before saying, “What can I say to you? Why do you think so?”

“I have to think this way. The eighth sister just came to the island, and she never offended Comrade Gao. If you didn’t have an opinion on me, why did she suddenly bully a child and scold her so badly?”

Looking at Zhou Jianhai who was speaking righteously in front of him, Zhao Feng was very arrogant, and quickly explained: “You misunderstood, I really have no opinion on you, and Xiulian bullying your cousin is not my order. In fact, I am also I quarreled with her about this matter, I promise, I will have a good talk with her again, and let her go and apologize to Comrade Chen, do you think this will work?”

Zhou Jianhai didn’t answer and asked, “I heard that Comrade Gao also apologized to Comrade Lin Wei?”

Zhao Feng didn’t understand why, so he nodded and said, “There is such a thing.”

“Seeing what Comrade Gao has done, I thought of a sentence: actively admit mistakes and never repent.”

No matter how stiff Zhao Feng’s face was, Zhou Jianhai said to himself: “Deputy Head Zhao, I’ll tell you directly, no matter who your husband and wife has an opinion on me, even if you come to me, it doesn’t matter, but it’s not good for my family. If there is another time, even if you are of high rank, I will definitely report it to the army and ask the leaders to give me justice, you should know that I can do such a thing.”

Of course Zhao Feng knew that Zhou Jianhai could do such a thing.

Luo Shuzhi’s husband is still the political commissar of their division. It can be said that he is the immediate boss of Zhou Jianhai’s boss, but he has only embarrassed his daughter-in-law a few times, so he dared to report directly to the army.

He is only a deputy head, how could Zhou Jianhai be afraid, that is a lunatic!

Zhao Feng was suffocating in his heart, and when he returned to the house, his face was not very good, but Gao Xiulian was still there saying that he was useless, and whispered to a camp instructor.

He was so angry that he pointed at Gao Xiulian and said, “Yes, you are capable, you offend this one today, and that one tomorrow, if you are reasonable, I will not talk about you, but you are good, you are the one who picks up the trouble, and you are the one who is unreasonable. You are too embarrassed to say that I am sulking with others, but you don’t think about it, with a troublemaker like you at home, can I be hard-hearted when I go out?”

Zhao Feng scolded Gao Xiulian with anger, and she asked in a sharp voice, “Zhao Feng! What do you mean?”

Zhao Feng shouted back in a louder voice: “What do I mean? I told you to go out less in the future, don’t make trouble! Do you understand?”

After shouting, Zhao Feng ripped open the button of his military uniform, picked up the teapot on the dining table, poured half a pot of herbal tea into the mouth of the pot, turned to look at the frightened woman and said, “Gao Xiulian, I’m just a rural soldier with no background. , I don’t have any connections, it’s not easy to get all the way up to now. I don’t expect me to bring any benefits to me, don’t cause trouble, and don’t offend people. Is such a simple request so difficult for you?”

Gao Xiulian stared at him blankly, murmuring, but in the end she didn’t say anything.

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